Can’t Go No Contact? 10 Easy Steps to Torture a Narcissist Into Submission

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And this is exactly how a narcissist needs to operate, because they fear people. This is because narcissists cause more pain, more helplessness than people with a lot of other diagnoses. Things were good for the first little while, but over the last year or so, they've started falling apart.

January 2, 2018 Hi Kathy, you did the right thing. You had the perfect love with your narcissist before that word became their name.

Obsessing Over A Narcissist

Many people mistakenly believe narcissists love sex. In fact, many narcissists are downright prudish. People with Borderline or Histrionic Personality Disorder are much more likely to be promiscuous, because in their minds, sexual attention is equated with love and acceptance. Sex is merely a tool they can use to get what they want or to control or manipulate their victim. There are two kinds of narcissists: cerebral and somatic. Neither has any empathy and neither has any desire to emotionally connect to another person and will go to great when a narcissist is obsessed with you to avoid it. This means neither a cerebral or somatic narcissist is capable of making love to another person because making love implies an emotional connection to someone else. Cerebral narcissists are the pretentious, insufferable intellectuals and achievers of the world. Cerebral narcissists suffer the deepest narcissistic injury when their intellectual prowess or success in the material world is threatened, someone else is deemed smarter or more successful than they are, or they are exposed as being of only average intelligence or ability. Sex is never an expression of love or emotional connection, because love and genuine emotional connection are things all narcissists avoid like the plague and are incapable of anyway. Sex with a cerebral narcissist is likely to be cold, machine-like, and lacking in spontaneity and emotional expression. The other partner is bound to feel frustrated and unfulfilled—and of course the narcissist could care less. Somatic narcissists are concerned with their body image, health, or physical appearance. They believe themselves to be the most handsome, beautiful, or sexiest person in any given room. They go to great lengths to maintain and embellish their most prized possessions—their own bodies. They may use sex as a way to woo potential partners because they know they can. A woman with somatic narcissism who has maintained an attractive body and style knows her sexual attributes are most likely to win her a potential mate. If he has attributes she thinks she needs money or successshe may even marry him because it benefits her lifestyle. A few narcissists who have become sociopathic may even use sex as a means to control and terrorize their victims. In their minds, it has become equated with violence and rage. It can be an incredible physical release. It leaves the realm of the animalistic and physical and becomes something that transforms both partners and connects them to the divine. Such utter vulnerability makes lovemaking scary to many people. Mosta feeling of strong infatuation that is often mistaken for love. It probably evolved as a way humans could attach to someone else long enough to bear a child and see it through the first year of life, when an infant is at its most vulnerable and needs two parents. Research suggests that intelligent mammals, such as dogs, cats and monkeys, and this includes feelings akin to limerence as well. Limerence is actually very narcissistic. I really enjoyed this blog post. For me, it was very educational. I did know about cerebral and somatic narcissists, but the rest of this post I didnt. He was a good-looking, smart one. I loved the guy and took pride in my appearance but for me, it was more of a show than this deep, deep connection that you described and I had heard about. So for a realtionship to be long-lasting there needs to be more substance to it rather than only limerence that was a new word for me. Thinking about all you said, I think I prefer and feel more comfortable when a narcissist is obsessed with you sex with someone who is somewhat detached. I think all pleasurable sex is good. Everything that occurs in the material world is temporary. Relationships can be long-term but even they are always changing and evolving. Ultimately, I think sex is about letting go.

The 5 Types of Narcissist In 1996, a named Theodore Millon identified and defined five different types of narcissistic behavior. I truly look forward to your advice here. He couldn't work because they weren't good enough at work, but even exhausted, I could. In some groups, being thin has become synonymous with feminine and being fat synonymous with being unappealing and unattractive. And third they love to use the legal system to abuse their victim They will hire a Narc attorney to batter and abuse you by proxy Then u can get really trapped in a nightmare where no one hears you They all believe them And second thing is that when u say No to a Narc it has the opposite effect on them How dare u say No to a narc! Here is the absolute truth: We created at soul level contracts for these people to come into our lives. I no longer even have hope that same woman will ever exist again. This is why healing from the intense obsession, attachment and pulls is all about healing our Inner Being from the woundedness that we took on from unconscious role models who withheld or abused. Is there a way I can maintain my separation from her and keep my relationship with her son? I need to heal this emotional wound. S November 5, 2017 Only last night I was taking to a friend who told me about her Narcissistic parents and how the New Age therapy approach she encountered later on was harmful to her.